Poison and Wine
'Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us'

LaToya| 24| Chef and Business Owner| Lesbian
IG: @_cookingwitht
@sliceofheaven_
  • darthmeaghan:

    Sometimes you have to say fuck everyone & do it your way

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  • Watching sailor moon cleaning and rearranging my room

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  • Congratulations are in order!

    I am so proud of my friend the-authentix-life she got the job! In the short time that I have known her she has truly grown into a confident person and taking her life into her hands. No assistant mentality for us!

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  • mind blown moment

    Soo I am watching the documentary ‘Dark Girls’ ( I know I am late) and Michael Colyar said to the effect of that, colorism and racism is so embedded into our lives that on your wedding day (your picture perfect day) you wear white and during a funeral ( a dark and mournful day) you wear black. We are taught that the night is sinister and we just put that kind of thinking towards our everyday lives.

    I never thought about that. EVER.

    Slavery mentality runs so deep in this country it is just like breathing.
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  • morning rant

    African Proverb: if there is no enemy within; the enemy on the outside can do us no harm

    motivating yourself is one of the hardest things to in this day and age,  especially when we are trained to take the easy way out (work for someone else or stay in bed wishing on things we want ). Our generation is spoiled, if doesn’t come easy then we don’t want to do it.

    Allow yourself to go through the pain of finding out who you really are and let those growing pains MOTIVATE your soul to find your true purpose. 

    Our ancestor did not go through 400 years of slavery for US to sit on our asses and complain.

    If they can go through THAT it is up to US to allow ourselves to be better than the person  we were yesterday. 

    I am awake for a reason and i need to find out what that is. I am not trying to leave this planet with regret and what ifs

    My lineage tells me that I come from Warriors and Queens 

    Am I really doing them justice with my existence at this present point and time or would they call me lazy and unmotivated?

    It’s time to rage into the night. to be fearless, and stop allowing myself to get wrapped in emotions that are comfortable (anger, sadness, worthlessness)

    the phrase ‘I am’ is the most power phrase in existence. It is a definition of self; I am pretty, i am beautiful, i am lonely.

    Define your soul with purpose, drive and a will to want better in your life.

    this is your life and there is only one way out of it. how do you really want to live it?

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  • I was tagged by the-authentix-life

    5 random things about me:

    1. I really don’t eat candy..like ever
    2. I admire a nice butt BUT I love breast….I can suck on them all day especially really pretty ones
    3. Love girls with natural hair
    4. I never felt more beautiful until I cut all my hair off
    5. I love cookies and cream ice cream (blue bell is my favorite)


    I tag whoever wants to do it hehe

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  • Anonymous asked : I could never be a lesbian

    southernpetite:

    itsthelesbiana:

    😂😂😂 yasss

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  • NEW MUSIC!

    kehlanimusic:

    NEW MUSIC! Go listen/download my new song “Get Away” Produced by Jahaan Sweet. https://soundcloud.com/kehlanimusic/get-away-prod-by-jahaan-sweetimage

    (via the-authentix-life)

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  • (Source: no-onecares-x, via darthmeaghan)

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  • "You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise."
    Daniell Koepke (via psych-facts)

    (via blackintrovertedandqueer)

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  • (Source: ailsawils24, via silentnefertiti)

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  • eartheld:

    eartheld:

    mostly nature
    mostly nature

    (Source: dazedandcomposed, via swelldame)

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  • decolonize-all-the-things:

    0ne0fkind:

    decolonize-all-the-things:

    I just thirst followed the fuck outta 0ne0fkind & I have absolutely no shame, none at all lol

    Aww 😙

    Lmao its just a fact, you are fucking beautiful, just a cosmos of beauty itself

    I need to write that down and put it on my wall ‘cosmos of beauty itself’

    That is so sweet!

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